Key Phrases


Getting hitched

If you still don't know your Bedeken from your Erusin, don't panic. The rituals surrounding a Jewish wedding ceremony can be daunting, but our quick guide to the key phrases will help make sure your nuptials go without a hitch.



Bedeken – The bride’s veiling before the start of the chuppah ceremony

Chatan – The bridegroom

Erusin – The betrothal ceremony that forms the first part of the wedding service

Kallah – The bride

Ketubah – The marriage contract

Kinyan – In order for the groom to accept the obligations of the marriage contract, he must perform an act that indicates taking possession – known as making a kinyan. He usually does this during the Tisch, by taking a piece of material (usually a hanky or napkin) from the Rabbi, who represents the bride

Tenaim – The formal engagement ceremony

Kittel – A white robe sometimes the groom sometimes wears for the duration of the wedding ceremony

Nisuin – The marriage section of the wedding service

Sheva Brachot – Seven blessings recited under the chuppah and after Grace After Meals at the wedding dinner

Tisch – Literally means a table. This is actually a small pre-wedding reception for the groom, where the ketubah is signed.

Yichud – Seclusion of the couple after the chuppah ceremony

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